Berlin has a well-earned reputation as a Mecca of sex-positive partying. There are numerous dedicated sex clubs and a whole host of sex parties. Navigating this world, especially as a newcomer, can be daunting. Keep it safe, consensual and fun. They have a well-trained safeguarding team on hand to make sure everything runs as smoothly as possible. Klub Verboten is perhaps better suited to more experienced perverts than first-timers, but everyone is welcome, so familiarise yourself with the excellent rules section on their website and make a date.
When this party started more than eight years ago, every single kink party was all-black everywhere. Four Play encouraged everyone to embrace colour in their outfits, and they can take a lot of credit for spreading this vibe to other parties. The parties are legendary too, with people in the scene regarding it as perhaps the premier party in the KitKatClub calendar.
The whole ethos and drive of Pinky Promise is to make sex positivity more accessible. Their events include workshops and educational sessions on topics like radical intimacy, non-monogamy and fem sensuality. The dress codes encourage people to have fun and express themselves with colour β as opposed to the typical black Berlin club wear.
There is also a decked-out play area for couples and friends, so you can find space to explore, connect and have fun. One of the biggest and most beloved sex-positive parties in Berlin, House of Lunacy transforms Wilde Renate into a fantasy realm that feels like stepping into another world.
Every party has a theme and the dress code is strict β if you do not make an effort you will not get in. Helpfully, the team put mood boards on their website for inspiration and guidance. People really go the extra mile for this event and the costumes are often incredibly creative.
